fix: resolve deadlock in concurrent offset commits #1332

Job	Run time
Test with Kafka 1.0.2 / Test with Kafka 1.0.2	7m 46s
Test with Kafka 3.6.2 / Test with Kafka 3.6.2	8m 53s
Test with Kafka 2.6.3 / Test with Kafka 2.6.3	9m 18s
Test with Kafka 3.9.2 / Test with Kafka 3.9.2	9m 16s
Test with Kafka 4.2.0 / Test with Kafka 4.2.0	8m 47s
Test with Kafka 4.1.1 / Test with Kafka 4.1.1	9m 6s
	53m 6s

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