Instead
mongo --quiet mongodb://127.0.1.1:27017/meteor --eval "db.meetings.find()" | grep "meetingEnded\" : false," | wc -l
you should use
mongo --quiet mongodb://127.0.1.1:27017/meteor --eval "DBQuery.shellBatchSize = 100000; db.meetings.find()" | grep "meetingEnded\" : false," | wc -l
Mongo will show 20 rows only by default, so you will never see more than 20 meetings.