[FEATURE] Low FFI code size for QUIC

[qzhuyan]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
Current release FFI dynamic lib file is around 2MB.
We have

Describe the solution you'd like
Use dynamic linked system openssl, crypto

Describe alternatives you've considered

• disable serde
• disable other lang FFI bindings.
• remove std backtrace.

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