fix(cli-repl): call net.setDefaultAutoSelectFamily(true) MONGOSH-1378 (#1407)

* fix(cli-repl): call net.setDefaultAutoSelectFamily(true) MONGOSH-1378

See the ticket, this is necessary to avoid connectivity issues
when using Node.js 17+, which homebrew is doing for us.

* fixup: try temporarily downgrading Node.js 14 for Windows CI...

* fixup: use docker-compose rather than raw docker

Author: addaleax