use sni-based routing with nginx for web,api,caldav, and carddav

[flaviomartins]

the self-hosting setup exposes the web container via port 443.

the proposed changes adds nginx as a pass-through proxy that exposes the REST/WebDAV containers on port 443 based on the prefix subdomain obtained via SNI

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