ci: "update to nx 21" followup fixes

[Saadnajmi]

Summary:

Two fixes:

1. After chore: update to nx 21 #2560 , I forgot to update the CI step that reads the nx.json tag. Let's do that, and have it properly fail if it can't find the tag.
   2, Fix nx release publish is confused by react-native-macos's prepublish script. #2580 by calling yarn npm publish directly.
2. Use console.table() to print the react native artifacts updated in a release. Why? Because it looks cool.

Test Plan:

CI should pass.
Seriously, this looks cool!

 NX   No files would be changed as a result of running versioning

✅ Updated React Native artifacts
┌─────────┬──────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────┐
│ (index) │ Values                                                                                                           │
├─────────┼──────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────┤
│ 0       │ 'packages/react-native/ReactAndroid/gradle.properties'                                                           │
│ 1       │ 'packages/react-native/ReactAndroid/src/main/java/com/facebook/react/modules/systeminfo/ReactNativeVersion.java' │
│ 2       │ 'packages/react-native/React/Base/RCTVersion.m'                                                                  │
│ 3       │ 'packages/react-native/ReactCommon/cxxreact/ReactNativeVersion.h'                                                │
│ 4       │ 'packages/react-native/Libraries/Core/ReactNativeVersion.js'                                                     │
└─────────┴──────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────┘