chore: upgrade to latest `iroh` and `quic-rpc` #217

Job	Run time
Cross Build Only (x86_64-unknown-freebsd)	52s
Android Build Only (aarch64-linux-android)	1m 10s
Cross Test (i686-unknown-linux-gnu)	1m 11s
Android Build Only (armv7-linux-androideabi)	1m 7s
Checking docs	2m 0s
cargo deny	30s
Checking fmt	22s
check_semver	2m 27s
clippy_check	2m 25s
codespell	4s
Minimal Supported Rust Version	1m 43s
CI Test Suite / Tests (ubuntu-latest, stable, all)	1m 36s
CI Test Suite / Tests (windows-latest, stable, all, x86_64-pc-windows-msvc)	1m 4s
CI Test Suite / Tests (ubuntu-latest, stable, none)	1m 10s
CI Test Suite / Tests (ubuntu-latest, stable, default)	1m 25s
CI Test Suite / Tests (windows-latest, stable, none, x86_64-pc-windows-msvc)	1s
CI Test Suite / Tests (macOS-arm-latest, stable, all)	1m 59s
CI Test Suite / Tests (windows-latest, stable, default, x86_64-pc-windows-msvc)	1s
CI Test Suite / Tests (macOS-arm-latest, stable, none)	1m 2s
CI Test Suite / Tests (macOS-arm-latest, stable, default)	1m 35s
	23m 44s

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