[Utils] Expand is_match

[kylesayrs]

Purpose

• Make module matching in vLLM a little cleaner

Changes

• Change function signature of is_match to the following:

def is_match(
    name: str,
    module: torch.nn.Module,
    targets: str | Iterable[str],
    ignore: str | Iterable[str] = tuple(),
    fused: Optional[FusedMappping] = None,
)

Testing

• Matching tests pass

[brian-dellabetta]

is this rename a potential breaking change in vllm?