fix: ndk.relays appears to operate differently to the bootstrap relays

packages/ndk/test/scenarios/boostrap_relay_query_test.dart

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+import 'package:ndk/domain_layer/entities/connection_source.dart';
+import 'package:ndk/ndk.dart';
+import 'package:test/test.dart';
+
+void main() async {
+  group(
+    "boostrap relay test",
+    skip: true,
+    () {
+      test('nostr.wine in boostrap', () async {
+        final ndk = Ndk(
+          NdkConfig(
+              engine: NdkEngine.JIT,
+              eventVerifier: Bip340EventVerifier(),
+              cache: MemCacheManager(),
+              bootstrapRelays: [
+                'wss://nostr.wine',
+              ]),
+        );
+
+        final response = ndk.requests.query(filters: [
+          Filter(limit: 5, kinds: [1])
+        ]);
+
+        await for (final event in response.stream) {
+          /// works
+          print('got event from nostr.wine: ${event.id}');
+        }
+      });
+
+      test('nostr.wine connect after', () async {
+        final ndk = Ndk(
+          NdkConfig(
+              engine: NdkEngine.JIT,
+              eventVerifier: Bip340EventVerifier(),
+              cache: MemCacheManager(),
+              bootstrapRelays: []),
+        );
+
+        await ndk.relays.connectRelay(
+          dirtyUrl: "wss://nostr.wine",
+          connectionSource: ConnectionSource.seed,
+        );
+
+        final response = ndk.requests.query(filters: [
+          Filter(limit: 5, kinds: [1])
+        ]);
+
+        await for (final event in response.stream) {
+          ///todo does not work
+          print('got event from nostr.wine: ${event.id}');
+        }
+      });
+
+      test('nostr.wine connect in request', () async {
+        final ndk = Ndk(
+          NdkConfig(
+              engine: NdkEngine.JIT,
+              eventVerifier: Bip340EventVerifier(),
+              cache: MemCacheManager(),
+              bootstrapRelays: []),
+        );
+
+        final response = ndk.requests.query(
+          filters: [
+            Filter(limit: 5, kinds: [1]),
+          ],
+          explicitRelays: ["wss://nostr.wine"],
+        );
+
+        await for (final event in response.stream) {
+          /// works
+          print('got event from nostr.wine: ${event.id}');
+        }
+      });
+    },
+  );
+}