refactor(rsc): remove server optimizeDeps.include in favor of cjs module runner transform

[hi-ogawa]

Description

After #687, this should work in principle. If not, we should improve cjs module runner transform.

TODO

• it looks like we are missing default import interop fix(rsc): fix cjs default import on module runner #695
• test-provider-in-server-dep in packages/plugin-rsc/examples/basic/src/routes/deps/client-in-server/server.tsx is broken. it looks like dual module of @vitejs/test-dep-client-in-server2/client.
  • hmm, it looks like this is because nothing is optimized on server and ?v= won't be added to anymore, which breaks client-in-server-package-proxy detection logic.
  • we should check Vite's isInNodeModule instead of ?v= fix(rsc): replace ?v= check with more robust node_modules detection #696
• make it a separate plugin package?